John Davies - Notes From a Small Vicar

The dead are not under the earth

Churches Weekly Newsletter: No.156, 16 April 2023

Those who have died have never, never left
The dead are not under the earth
They are in the rustling trees
They are in the groaning woods
They are in the crying grass,
They are in the moaning rocks
The dead are not under the earth.

– Ysaye Barnwell, 'Breaths', Sweet Honey in the Rock, 1988

This time each year my mind always turns towards my grandmother Edna Jones whose birthday was 15 April. My Yorkshire grandmother, the daughter of a Bingley cobbler, who as a young woman moved with her parents to Liverpool, where they set up a shoe shop in suburban Waterloo: my eventual birthplace. 

When Ysaye Barnwell sings “The dead are not under the earth,” she is of course being figurative. Edna's ashes went to earth back in the 1980s, mercifully some years before that other indelible 15th April event, the Hillsborough Stadium disaster of 1989, which shook our community to the core, and would have shaken Edna so, as she loved her sport, its people and its traditions. Each FA Cup Final day Edna would gather the family in her living room where we would watch the game together, followed by a ham tea.

But in her song Barnwell is inviting us to consider these questions: Where do you find your ancestors? How do relationships with generations back continue to nurture your life? What traditions do you hold around your ancestors, practices which are still part of your life?

These are good Eastertime questions, encouraging us to look for signs of resurrection in the details of our daily lives, to consider how those who have gone before us continue to shape some aspects of our characters.

I find Edna less in 'the rustling trees... the groaning woods' of this place, and more in the inflections of some West Yorkshire womens' voices, their terse and vigorously expressive ways of speaking; and I find something of her spirit too, in the solidarity I have (and I'm certain she would have had) with the families of those whose loved ones went to watch a football match that April day, and never returned, in their search for recognition and justice in the face of 'the patronising disposition of unaccountable power', as Bishop James Jones later put it in a government report. Now, years after that report's publication, there are plans to introduce a Hillsborough Law, with a so-called Independent Public Advocate to support families caught up in major disasters.

(thanks to Geez magazine for the 'Breaths' references)

The process of historical remembering: that is what Holy Week is about

Churches Weekly Newsletter: No.154, 2 April 2023

Jesus was no innocent victim, lest we forget. His crucifixion was the outcome of his dedicated mission to promote the values of the kingdom of God over and above the values of the Jewish religious establishment and the Roman Empire, which dominated his society. He constantly challenged the priests for the way their regulations crushed the ordinary people; and his heresy that there was a greater God than the Emperor called into question the hegemonic power of Rome. 

Whilst his crucifixion aligns him with every other victim of political killing through history, his resurrection has always offered hope to people whose lives are blighted by such powers. Hope, and the impetus to work for change-for-the-better in the world. If we forget this history we reduce Jesus' mission to something abstract, spiritualised, and uprooted from his - and our - lived experience.

Historical remembering and forgetting is a current issue in our public life. Whether the subject is war crimes, or slavery, or empire-building genocides, or corporate injustices, the 'debate' is too often reduced to a push-and-pull between those who say 'we should leave the past in the past', and those who want to kick over the statues.

The Christian gospel insists that we can't remain neutral on this. For the Jesus tradition (informed by the prophetic works of the Hebrew Scriptures) is clear where it stands on the ground between the poor and those who oppress them. The Jesus tradition is rooted in history, and it demands that we open our eyes to what we know. 

“You already know enough. So do I,” writes Sven Lindqvist on the first page of Exterminate All the Brutes, his exploration of the consequences of European imperialism. “It is not knowledge we lack. What is missing is the courage to understand what we know and draw conclusions.” This is no easy task, complications and discomfort abound as we peel back the many layers of our thorny histories, as we trace back the capital in our homes, churches and businesses to its potentially immoral sources, and process how to respond to what we find.

The gospel warns us that if we travel such paths there may be crucifixions along the way. But the gospel does not stop at crucifixions. It insists on resurrections. The hope is that the process of historical remembering can bring to life new ways for us to flourish on this earth together. The process of historical remembering: that is what Holy Week is about.

Every hour an ever more satisfying discovery

Churches Weekly Newsletter - No.153, 26 March 2023

Pippa Foulds, Couched and knotted. From facebook.com/pippafoulds/photos

Gillian Hazeldene, John Cage: Begin Anywhere. From gillianhazeldine.co.uk

 

Our Afternoon Fellowship is blessed to have gifted local people taking time and care to generously share their interests and crafts with us each month. This week Pippa Foulds described to us her journey from having been a lawyer to now being an active member of the Royal School of Needlework (RSN), teaching and undertaking commissions of all kinds in many places, worldwide. 

Pippa works with Durham Cathedral Broderers, and was appointed Head Broderer at York Minster in 2018. She showed us examples from a number of private commissions, commercial, ecclesiastical and conservation, and described in detail her restoration of the white altar frontal at Austwick Church (which will next be on display on Easter Day). Starting by taking a pair of scissors to vintage (if threadbare) silk, to crop out the needlework designs to be restored (onto new silk), must require quite some nerve. The meticulous work of creating, or re-creating, detailed shapes and forms clearly requires a steady hand and keen eye.

Pippa also showed us her work on one of the pictorial panels on ‘The Magna Carta, An Embroidery’ for artist Cornelia Parker, on ‘The Hardhome Embroidery’ for HBOs Game of Thrones, and of her project for RSN at Burberry’s Makers House, among exhibitors described as "some of Britain’s most exciting creators, (showing) the innovation and inspiration behind their work.”

The image above, of a recent piece, shows how Pippa’s interests in embroidery are now embracing more experimental forms. I found myself reflecting on how this mirrored Jilly Hazeldine’s presentation to the Fellowship in January, where she described a similar ‘journey’ which she is making from conventional, into increasingly abstract, styles of lettering, as demonstrated by the image above. 

“With the drawing of this Love and the voice of this Calling / We shall not cease from exploration,” wrote T.S. Eliot in Little Gidding. Eliot was describing the progress through life of an engaged Christian faith, but his words might equally express something which artists and craftspeople who love their work also find to be true, and which we may each find true with whatever it is we’re passionate about. If we love something in that deep way, then every hour we spend with it is a time of ever more satisfying discovery.

Our warm welcome

Churches Weekly Newsletter - No.152, 19 March 2023

They come, they come; we may not always see their face, but this is their space.

Their space to breathe, their space to be.

They come, they come; in times of joy and times of sadness, shedding tears of grief and gladness.

Their space to breathe, their space to be.

They come, they come; keep the doors open wide, welcome them inside.

Their space to breathe, their space to be.*

It was encouraging that despite heavily falling snow and sub-zero temperatures, there was a high  attendance at our Deanery Lent Meeting at Settle Parish Church on Tuesday evening. It's clear that many want to engage with the Lent series' exploration of the interaction between 'Rural Life and Village Church'.

We considered 'Our Warm Welcome' to all those who visit our churches: tourists on a day out; walkers; people visiting graves; members of the congregation; families; guests to weddings, funerals or baptisms; local school children, their teachers, staff and parents; people looking for a place of peace or solitude; elderly visitors, young children, and visitors with restricted mobility. 

The Very Revd John Dobson DL, Dean of Ripon, gave an informative and stimulating presentation about how the people of Ripon Cathedral are working out their mission to be 'a mother church of the diocese ... proclaiming the Good News of the Kingdom to the region'. He helpfully linked the cathedral's 'welcome ministry' to that of our parish churches, for whilst there are differences in scale, of course, there are many similarities. Many of us left the meeting keen to find ways to further extend our welcome to all.

Dean John reminded us that Jesus came ‘that they may have life, and have it abundantly…’ We should be proud of, and give thanks for the abundance of life which overflows from our churches: in their worship, in their history, in their life-in-community today. We can be grateful for the many opportunities which our churches afford, to extend a warm welcome to all. May each of us know that we can play a part in willingly welcoming all who are looking for something in these places for which we care, so that they will be blessed to find that something in them.

* from the excellent Welcome Guide from Exeter Diocese which 'helps churches look at their buildings with fresh eyes. This guide is full of lots of ideas as to how we can warm up our welcome and show our churches are open to all.' Recommended.

Home by Warsan Shire

Churches Weekly Newsletter - No.150, 5 March 2023

Warsan Shire reads her poem 'Home'. The complete poem follows:

Home

By Warsan Shire

no one leaves home unless
home is the mouth of a shark
you only run for the border
when you see the whole city running as well

your neighbours running faster than you
breath bloody in their throats
the boy you went to school with
who kissed you dizzy behind the old tin factory
is holding a gun bigger than his body
you only leave home
when home won’t let you stay.

no one leaves home unless home chases you
fire under feet
hot blood in your belly
it’s not something you ever thought of doing
until the blade burnt threats into
your neck
and even then you carried the anthem under
your breath
only tearing up your passport in an airport toilet
sobbing as each mouthful of paper
made it clear that you would not be going back.

you have to understand,
that no one would put their children in a boat
unless the sea is safer than the land
no one burns their palms
under trains
beneath carriages
no one spends days and nights in the stomach of a truck
feeding on newspaper unless the miles travelled
means something more than journey.
no one crawls under fences
wants to be beaten
wants to be pitied

no one chooses refugee camps
or strip searches where your
body is left aching
or prison,
because prison is safer
than a city of fire
and one prison guard
in the night
is better than a truckload
of men who look like your father
no one could take it
no one could stomach it
no one's skin would be tough enough

the
go home blacks
refugees
dirty immigrants
asylum seekers
sucking our country dry
niggers with their hands out
they smell strange
savage
messed up their country and now they want
to mess ours up
how do the words
the dirty looks
roll off your backs
maybe it's because the blow is softer
than a limb torn off

or the words are more tender
than fourteen men between
your legs
or the insults are easier
to swallow
than rubble
than bone
than your child body
in pieces.

i want to go home,
but home is the mouth of a shark
home is the barrel of the gun
and no one would leave home
unless home chased you to the shore
unless home told you
to quicken your legs
leave your clothes behind
crawl through the desert
wade through the oceans
drown
save
be hungry
beg
forget pride
your survival is more important

no one leaves home

unless home is a sweaty voice in your ear
saying-
leave,
run away from me now
i dont know what i’ve become
but i know that anywhere
is safer than here

 

(Warsan Shire is a Somali British writer and poet born in Nairobi and raised in London. She has written two chapbooks, Teaching My Mother How to Give Birth and Her Blue Body. She was awarded the inaugural Brunel International African Poetry Prize and served as the first Young Poet Laureate of London. She is the youngest member of the Royal Society of Literature and is included in the Penguin Modern Poets series. Bless the Daughter Raised by a Voice in Her Head is her full-length debut poetry collection.)

Dignity, Agency, Power

Churches Weekly Newsletter - No.148, 19 February 2023

To mark Church Action on Poverty’s 40th anniversary in 2022, Dignity, Agency, Power, an anthology of stories, prayers, reflections and liturgy, was published by Wild Goose Publications (Click here for details of the book). Here is the Foreword to that book, by Kathy Galloway, former head of Christian Aid Scotland.

"'Dignity', by the Scottish band Deacon Blue, is one of Scotland's most popular songs, sung at the closing ceremony of the 2014 Commonwealth Games in Glasgow. Wherever the band perform it, audiences join in fervently. As well as being a great song with a great chorus, it expresses the human yearning to be treated with dignity, to live dignified lives, and most people can relate to that.

"The glory of God is a human being fully alive. So said St Irenaeus, and made explicit the link between human dignity and God's creativity. Dignity is non-negotiable and unconditional. It does not depend on the criteria the world uses. The word 'dignity' itself derives from the Latin dignus, meaning 'worth.' Market forces do not set our value.We do not require value addition in God's economy. We have intrinsic worth.

"It has always seemed to me that an unshakeable commitment to human dignity, and challenging the poverty that is a violation of that dignity, has been at the heart of Church Action on Poverty's vision, values and practice for its 40 years. And agency, an act of trust in the right or capacity of each person to act and give, is an expression of human dignity. When it comes to confronting poverty, people who struggle against it day by day, who really know what it feels like, have insights and understanding that no one else does. It gives them the right to speak and act. Their ideas for action are a gift that no one else has. 'Nothing about us, without us, is for us.'

"Church Action on Poverty has enabled people to come together, often crossing social, economic and political boundaries, to share, to listen, to learn. It has done this in imaginative and fruitful ways. Building solidarity in this way can be slow and painful and frustrating, but it builds confidence in the possibility of change and transformation, in the belief that 'yes we can!' When it seems that everything is against you - hostile public discourse, uncaring and uninformed policy decisions, remote and unaccountable institutions (and there are plenty of all of these in the current climate) believing in the possibility of resisting injustice and making effective and practical change is essential. This is power; not power over but power with and power to, the power to live fully human lives.

"A religious community which does not hunger and thirst for justice to be done bears false witness."

   In the UK, poverty is strongly associated with public attitudes of stigma and blaming individuals for their own poverty. Professor Ruth Lister describes this in terms of the 'othering' of people living in poverty. Over many decades, this attitude has been embedded not just in the welfare system, but in the way many professional agencies exercise moral judgements and highly intrusive methods of controlling the behaviour of people living in poverty (for example, the energy companies' enforcement of prepayment meters onto vulnerable customers). These attitudes have also been internalised by people in poverty themselves, to the extent that they describe a sense of shame, or in the words of Wayne Green, who spoke at CAP's first National Poverty Hearing in 1996 (which I attended): "What is poverty? Poverty is a battle of invisibility, a lack of resources, exclusion, powerlessness; being blamed for society's problems.’

The Churches have not been immune from these attitudes, too often treating poverty as a problem to be addressed through individual behaviour change, or in more theological language 'saving' people from their self-inflicted poverty. Meanwhile pioneering new research from CAP draws attention to the structural causes of poverty within church institutions, showing that church closures in recent years are disproportionately high in low-income neighbourhoods.

 This is the context in which poverty - and even many conventional attempts to tackle it - rob people of their dignity, agency or power over their lives.

In spite of this, Church Action on Poverty affirms the belief in the transformational possibilities of people coming together to reclaim their dignity, agency and power.

God in a workman’s jacket

Churches Weekly Newsletter - No.146, 5 February 2023

During last Sunday’s exceptional Church in the Pub at The Lake House - my, how we sang! - one hymn particularly stood out for me. It was requested by John Casson, fondly remembered from his schooldays. Its words are all the more powerful for their strangeness to our ears; for this is a rare hymn of Christ the Worker - full of the eschatological hope that when Christ returns he will come alongside the factory workers, the labourers, the miners, ‘God in a workman’s jacket as before’.

The hymn [1] is the creation of Geoffrey Anketel Studdert Kennedy,  born in 1883, the seventh of nine children born to Jeanette Anketell and William Studdert Kennedy, vicar of St Mary's, Quarry Hill, a deprived Leeds parish. Following his father’s vocation, Geoffrey Studdert Kennedy became known for his chaplaincy to soldiers in the trenches during WW1 where his generous distribution of cigarettes earned him the nickname ‘Woodbine Willie’, and where his reflections on the intense suffering of all around led him to develop his idea of God as being the ‘comrade’ of those who struggle, as in this poem: 

The hymn is the creation of Geoffrey Anketel Studdert Kennedy,  born in 1883, the seventh of nine children born to Jeanette Anketell and William Studdert Kennedy, vicar of St Mary's, Quarry Hill, a deprived Leeds parish. Following his father’s vocation, Geoffrey Studdert Kennedy became known for his chaplaincy to soldiers in the trenches during WW1 where his generous distribution of cigarettes earned him the nickname ‘Woodbine Willie’, and where his reflections on the intense suffering of all around led him to develop his idea of God as being the ‘comrade’ of those who struggle, as in this poem: ‘Only with Him, my Comrade God, beside me, Can I go forth to war with sin and pain.’ [2]

In poor parishes and industrial chaplaincy Studdert Kennedy dedicated the rest of his life’s work ‘with affection and respect’ to ‘the working men of Britain: they were soldiers once’. [3]

Studdert Kennedy’s notion of God as being alongside the ordinary person going about their everyday tasks brings to mind the poet-priest D. Gwenallt Jones whose poem Dewi Sant (1951) envisions Saint David as one who ‘went down to the bottom of the pit with the miners And threw the light of his wise lamp on the coal-face’, and who later, ‘brought the Church to our homes, Put the Holy Vessels on the kitchen table, And got bread from the pantry and bad wine from the cellar, And stood behind the table like a tramp Lest he should hide the wonder of the Sacrifice from us.’ [4]

And lastly, I find echoes of this in one of the great moments of twentieth-century British liturgy, a traditional form revived by Revd George MacLeod as a daily prayer of the Iona Community: ‘O Christ, the Master Carpenter, who at the last, through wood and nails, purchased our whole salvation; wield well your tools in the workshop of your world, so that we who come rough-hewn to your work bench may here be fashioned to a truer beauty by your hand.’ [5]

In his writings and speeches Studdert Kennedy often lamented the gulf between the Church and working people, and he devoted himself to bridging the gulf between the organised Church and organised labour, whilst his poetry and song lead us into the heart of a God who is immanent in a world of working people’s struggles. What other holy songs might we sing into those struggles today?

Notes

[1] Click here to listen to a recording of When through the whirl of wheels and engines humming by Van Wagner. Entry for the hymn in hymnary.org.

[2] Wikipedia: Geoffrey Studdert Kennedy; Richard and Sylvia Rice-Oxley, Woodbine Willie – musical reflections: The Comrade God.

[3] G. A. Studdert Kennedy, Democracy and the Dog-Collar, front matter.

[4] D. Gwenallt Jones, Dewi Sant.

[5] The Morning Service of the Iona Community from the Iona Abbey Worship Book [PDF].

 

The bishops' apology: 'text book abuse'

Churches Weekly Newsletter - No.144, 22 January 2023

I spent much of Tuesday this week on two Safeguarding courses: one with the diocese, the other with the county education department. Compulsory and time-consuming, yes, but far from just box-ticking: these were valuable reminders of the need to listen hard, and very well, to people who might be being seriously mistreated by others; of the importance of paying utmost attention at all times to those around us who are especially liable to be ignored and misunderstood - or abused. This insight comes from the secular world but I think it agrees entirely with the overarching spirit of our Judaeo-Christian scriptures: that God’s heart is especially for those who society treats as outsiders, and that God would have us demonstrate that in our life of faith.

Then came the news that the Church of England‘s bishops have rejected demands to allow clergy to conduct same-sex marriages, but will be proposing to next month’s General Synod that same-sex couples will be able to come to church for a blessing after their civil marriage or civil partnership ceremony. Alongside this, the bishops apologised to LGBTQI+ people for the “rejection, exclusion and hostility” they have faced in churches and the impact this has had on their lives.

Thus, among all the reactions which followed, the one which stood out and  impacted me most was one from a friend of a priest-friend of mine who, on ‘coming out’ as gay had been so appallingly treated by his congregation and poorly supported by his ecclesiastical seniors that he, in anguish and at great cost, quit church ministry (and has since reinvented himself as an independent celebrant). This friend responded to the bishop’s double-edged statement by saying,

“It’s a text book abusive relationship. ‘We love you, we’re sorry, it’s your own decision to make us treat you like this’ … ‘We love you, we’re sorry, we promise that next time it will be different’… It never is and they never stop hurting people and breaking promises to lovely trusting people who deserve better.”

The bishops urged all congregations in their care to welcome same-sex couples “unreservedly and joyfully” as they reaffirm their commitment to a “radical new Christian inclusion founded in scripture, in reason, in tradition, in theology and the Christian faith as the Church of England has received it – based on good, healthy, flourishing relationships, and in a proper 21st Century understanding of being human and of being sexual”. 

This statement came at the start of the Week of Prayer for Christian Unity, and this whole episode invites our prayer that the churches will develop a culture that doesn’t see faith as a war to be won, but as a world to be explored; that doesn’t regard ‘different’ people as enemies, but as people to be loved.

For some Christians this debate may seem like an irrelevance compared to some of the other pressing issues of our day. But for many others it cuts to the quick, it is a raw subject reaching to the core of who they are. I’m especially aware of the pain suffered by the many LGBTQI+ Christians who feel unwelcome in both the communities which they ought to be most at home: the church, with all its “rejection, exclusion and hostility”, and the gay community which is understandably wary about Christians. To be rejected by those closest to you must be agonising to bear. 

I am glad to say that in our congregations there is already welcome towards those of different sexualities, but we are some distance from the highly-charged politics of Synod. 

Is it time to admit that this is not a ‘debate’ which must be ‘won’ on micro-points of scripture, but rather that a culture of “radical new Christian inclusion” can only be achieved when we practice scripture’s overarching spirit of being attentive to those usually ignored, when we learn to listen hard to those usually misunderstood, and especially, when we stand with and for those we realise are being abused?

 

It's about why we matter

Churches Weekly Newsletter - No.141, 25 December 2022 / 1 January 2023

Would Mary and Joseph have wanted to go to Bethlehem that night? if you think about it, given Mary's vulnerable condition and their being among the struggling poor, it's unlikely that they would. The gospel makes it pretty clear that - like everyone else who'd made that physically demanding, financially costly journey - they were given no choice.

Luke doesn't record with what punishment Governor Quirinus threatened non-compliant taxpayers, but we can judge from the narrative that his census was aggressively enforced. If you're barely subsisting, why would you want to go to Bethlehem at your own crippling expense to sign up to a new tax regime which you knew would impoverish you even more in the future? In the distressing knowledge that in your absence your home might be torched by followers of the Zealot tax resistance movement?

The Christ-child was born into a struggle which persists to this day: the struggle of ordinary people to get by in situations of extreme duress forced on them by rulers who treat the working classes contemptuously.

It's a Wonderful Life

It's a struggle poignantly portrayed by James Stewart as George Bailey in It's a Wonderful Life. Bailey is an honest man driven to attempt suicide as he faces ruin at the hands of avaricious banker Henry F. Potter. Like the nativity story itself, the film is a Christmas favourite, of which Matt Haig writes, 'It's not schmaltzy. It's raw. It has incredible power. About the big importance of small lives. About the dehumanising cruelty of capitalism. About why we matter. About the difference a life can make. About why we should stay alive.' This could also perfectly describe the nativity stories told by Matthew and Luke. 

A vice-president of Humanists UK, Polly Toynbee, this week observed that 'In all Christmas messages, the poor inherit the earth, the stable stands for the homeless and refugees'. Toynbee finds it 'a mystery ... why so little of this goodwill gets beyond the tinsel into politics.' She neglects to mention the numbers of Christians who are active in feeding the poor and supporting homeless people and refugees, and the many who campaign for changes in law and practice to improve the well-being of those who are struggling.

But I think it is fair to ask: if we do believe that the nativity story holds truths which are relevant to our world today, then how in our homes this Christmas might we celebrate 'the big importance of small lives', how as individuals and communities this coming year might might we resist 'the dehumanising cruelty of capitalism', and how as churches might we stand with ordinary folk like Mary, Joseph, and George Bailey to affirm just 'why we matter'?

 

With some amount of goodwill

Churches Weekly Newsletter: No.140, 18 December 2022

Keasden's travelling crib arrived at Dovenantor last week (thanks, Ann Sheridan, for sharing this picture) and local households will continue to play host to Mary, Joseph, the shepherds and their assorted animals until their return to St Matthew's Church on Thursday (22nd, 7.00pm) for our Carols around the Crib service, where they will be joined by the baby Jesus of course, and later the Wise Men. It'll be a joyful moment in our Christmas celebrations.

Hospitality is one of this season's major themes; whether that means us preparing for meals at home with extended families or our travelling to other people's homes to enjoy the welcome they give us. According to Wikipedia 'Hospitality is the relationship between a guest and a host, wherein the host receives the guest with some amount of goodwill, including the reception and entertainment of guests, visitors, or strangers.’

'Some amount of goodwill' is a pregnant phrase. After a bruising year in public life it's easy to recognise how our conflicted world instinctively creates hostile environments and provokes us to put up barriers between ourselves and those who are unlike us. Yet in our carolling gatherings and crib-hosting homes we give space to another kind of story. As millions of the world’s people continue to move from places of distress and conflict, seeking safety and daring to dream of maybe even finding a welcome, we might reflect on the generous reception which many here extended towards Ukrainian families this year; and we’re reminded of the refugee status of the Christ child himself:

We think of him as safe beneath the steeple,
Or cosy in a crib beside the font,
But he is with a million displaced people
On the long road of weariness and want.
For even as we sing our final carol
His family is up and on that road,
Fleeing the wrath of someone else’s quarrel,
Glancing behind and shouldering their load.
Whilst Herod rages still from his dark tower
Christ clings to Mary, fingers tightly curled,
The lambs are slaughtered by the men of power,
And death squads spread their curse across the world.
But every Herod dies, and comes alone
To stand before the Lamb upon the throne.
                                                         Malcolm Guite: Refugee

The Christmas story challenges us to be hospitable people, in the fullest meaning of that expression, now and every day of our lives. The families who hosted the traveling crib had this prayer to say at home with their strange visitors. It's a prayer we might all embrace:

Loving God, We thank you for Mary and Joseph and for their courage and trust. Thank you for the way their journey from Nazareth to Bethlehem was paralleled in their journey from being ordinary people to the extraordinary people you called them to be. Please be with us as we travel through Christmas this year, and as we seek to become the people you call us to be. May we too have courage and trust. Amen

Blessings,
John